The first thing that comes to your mind is fear that the chaser found someone new who makes them feel the way you feel. Then you panic wondering if the behaviors of running were necessary or not. If you had blocked your Twin Flame, you immediately unblock them so that you can talk.
If the Twin Flame chaser chooses to block you back, you get angry, guilty, anxious, and overwhelmed that you messed up a good thing.
I went into a phase of depression when I realized that running from my Twin Flame was a bad idea. I wondered if I had pushed him into the arms of other lovers and I kept thinking of the worst-case scenarios of every situation possible if my Twin Flame was dating other people.
I wrote to him, texted, and called but it had started seeming as if it was an obsessive behavior.
I am going to use the simplest examples to explain this feeling of healing, inner harmony, balance, and bliss. It is a euphoric and heavenly feeling when you get to this phase of your Twin Flame journey.
Awakening guide for newbies: Once you find healing within, it manifests in everything that you do.
Sometimes I feel like I am having a “Spiritual Orgasm” with my own life. (I know this doesn’t make sense but I feel it).
Once you find healing, the bliss feels constant and continuous. The fear that you felt before and the emotional pain is replaced with feelings of harmony. It feels heavenly when you are in energetic harmony with a Twin Flame.
It feels heavenly once you find healing. You are initiated into another phase of learning to embrace bliss and unconditional love.
Physical separation is the test of Twin Flame’s unconditional love. Here is why?
You will have doubts as to whether they are your divine partner or not. You will also trust them less if they don’t have the patience to wait for you.
Secondly, I believe that sleeping with others while you are going through a Twin Flame connection bogs down your energy in the connection.
Imagine waking up in someone else’s bed when you are tormented by your Twin Flame’s energy? It will complicate the situation for you.
Twin Flame Awakening is a SACRED experience — you are transformed for the best.
From my past experiences, having sex with others entangles your auras with others. Every time you have sex with someone, you take some kind of energy from them.
The Twin Flame connection is about clearing energy and karma — I believe that sleeping with others only taints your energy which slows down your healing.
Two things; Yes, you can Surrender and stop chasing your Twin Flame, and secondly, you can’t make them chase you or want you because you are already bound in unconditional love for eternity. They already love you.
How To Surrender To Self-Love 11:11: Healthy Energy & Self-care Habits Most people will advise you to find self-love but how do you begin to love yourself if it is a new experience? Why do you need self-love to let go of your Twin Flame? The simplest explanation for why you need to love yourself is because you are a mirror to your Twin Flame. You are two parts of a soul — and if you love yourself, you are also loving your Twin Flame in essence.
Twin Flame Chaser Surrender: Learning to Let Go to Heal Also, if you know how to love yourself unconditionally, you will be able to accept the love from your Twin Flame. You can’t appreciate love if don’t know it. As you begin to embrace self-love, you will gradually re-discover your authentic self. This is the person that your Twin Flame feels connected to in the connection and you must live a life of authenticity to enjoy feeling the bliss of the connection. When you are in chaser mode, you are vibrating from low-energy vibes because you feel negative and frustrated about your Twin Flame’s running behavior and this brings about chaos in your connection. Your Twin Flame can feel the energetic imbalance.
If you need simple tips on how to manage the pain of separation from your Twin Flame, try this. But, once you find the courage to accept things as they are, and you surrender — just letting go of the stress to control the connection brings harmony to the energetic connection. The more you keep working on yourself and heal your energy, the more you will feel the energy of oneness with your Twin Flame. The shared energy becomes more blissful and you feel yourselves merging into each other. This is the phase where you stop missing them intensely because you feel them within you: Telepathic communication improves, and you feel them in your dreams. You become more peaceful and faithful to the connection because you are satisfied with the 5D aspect of your experience.
Twin Flame Chaser Pain: Why do Twin Flames Run? It is very painful trying to keep up with a Twin Flame runner. This change within the chaser brings about a change in the energetic dynamic because the Twin Flame who was running feels the growth and improvement. This is when the runner tries to reconcile because they miss their divine partner. Therefore, you can’t make your Twin Flame want you if you are not ready yourself. It takes two to tangle.
It is because you have Soul INTIMACY with your Twin Flame. You have a sacred bond that goes beyond what the mind can comprehend.
Always Connected in Soul: You can’t escape your Twin Flame.
Because of Soul intimacy, you feel like you are cheating on your Twin Flame whenever you have sex with someone else.
I gave up on pursuing other relationships. I stopped deluding myself that I will feel happy with someone else. I am enjoying being single, as I prepare myself to reunite with my Twin Flame.
How To Surrender To Self-Love 11:11: Healthy Energy & Self-care Habits
Whether Twin Flames like to accept the truth or not, having sex with other people as you Awaken to your Twin Flame connection is a blockage of your shared energy with your partner.
When you are purging emotional pain or if you are dealing with healing your core wounds, you want to stay away from tainting your energy. You need space and solitude to heal first.
This is normal to feel this way. But, even if nothing seems to be working on the Twin Flame journey, there is always some progress going on. This is why it is very important to let yourself feel every emotion that you feel.
Separation from a Twin Flame brings all sorts of feelings to the surface. What simple tips are you using to manage your situation?
Are you resisting a certain aspect of your journey? You could be resisting channeling certain feelings your Twin Flame sends your way. You could be resisting thinking of them. Free yourself my acceptance to embrace your feelings.
• How is your quiet time like? It could be that you are spending your energy around those who are in low energetic vibes. Having quality time replenishes your energy — solitude is a blessing on the Twin Flame journey because it allows you to focus on yourself.
• Do you meditate? — Meditation is as simple as taking time to quiet your thoughts. The more you quiet your thoughts, the more you will feel connected to your Twin Flame within. Having clear energetic contact with your Twin Flame improves your telepathic communication. Once you have clear, understandable telepathy with your Twin Flame, you stop feeling alone.
• Surround yourself with positivity — since the Twin Flame journey is about rediscovering your authenticity, focus on accumulating positivity, and happiness in your life. You start with self-love, and then you will progress into living an authentic life.
• SET GOALS — What would you desire to achieve after everything goes back to harmony? If you desire to have a healthy physical relationship, will it be temporary or forever? What do you picture your perfect life scenario as? Who would you love to be when you are together in a union? How do you picture your responsibilities to be in a union?
Karmic Partners: How do you focus on yourself when you know that your Twin Flame is married to someone else?
Setting goals will not only give you HOPE to keep going with your Twin Flame journey but you will work on yourself every day having the end in mind.
Having the end in mind will empower you to focus on the big picture. You will not feel doubtful of your connection, and you will occupy your daily routine with meaningful goals that work in alignment with your desires.
The runner enters the 3rd phase of grief called bargaining.
Because of the panic and fear of losing their Twin Flame, the runner starts to wonder what they could have done to make the situation better.
They start to think “What ifs.”
If that is not enough, they can choose to mask their feelings behind a new relationship to deny feeling anything real for their chaser. They start to wonder if the connection was real or not.
A chaser’s surrender is a runner’s Awakening: TWIN FLAME REUNION: The Beginning Of Forever: These simple Tips helped me to initiate a reunion with my Twin Flame.
My runner experience was lonely – I missed him all the time. I was infuriated by the fact that I was still living in a space of fear. Eventually, I healed myself and reconnected with him after two years.
What changes how the runner Twin Flame feels are the actions of the chaser because the chasing activities lessen, and the chaser sometimes gives up ultimately to obsess about the connection.
If the Chaser Twin Flame was using social media to give messages to the runner — the runner is always checking the partner’s social media even if in hiding because this is how they keep track. Sometimes they create fake accounts to hide because they don’t want to miss out.
The simplest way the runner realizes that the chaser is moving on is that the times you post on social media decreases and when you do, it is about you i.e Self-love posts. This gets them panicking because they wonder if you forget them.
Twin Flame Chaser Pain: How to Recover from Separation. How do you focus on your life instead of trying to control the relationship?
In my case, I deactivated my social media altogether — I went quiet and he noticed. In the first post I put up after reactivating my account, he was the first one to like it.
Apart from social media, once the actions of the chaser lessen, the runner starts to feel the emptiness because they miss being chased. There is no runner without a chaser.
This pushes the runner into panic mode because they wonder if they are losing the game.
In essence, Twin Flames are the same and both of them are capable of either running from the connection or chasing the other.
For me when I ran from my Twin Flame, it was because I was overwhelmed by my feelings and I told him so before I blocked him out of my life physically after we physically separated three years ago.
I regret how I delivered my message to him that I was going to block him out of my life yet I was feeling immense love for him deep in my soul.
Running from my Twin Flame caused a contradiction between my Soul and my mind.
I could not understand why I could not stop thinking of him and I kept remembering his eyes.
I also was confused by the chaotic emotions that I felt because meeting him triggered a Spiritual Awakening and my Soul was calling me to find my authentic self.
I was not ready for the catalytic change that my Twin Flame encounter brought into my life and I was afraid of facing myself because the Spiritual Awakening triggered my inner pain and core wounding.
I thought that once we physically separated since we come from different continents, I thought that physically blocking him out of my life would help relieve the emotional pain that I was experiencing.
The more I put up an inner resistance to feeling the Twin Flame connection, the more I missed him so much and life only became worse than before.
The Spiritual change took over my life and it did not stop even though I resisted feeling the connection.
Apart from feeling inner change, I was also experiencing changes in my physical life situation: I had to change my friends, family relations, and social circles.
Change is very difficult to embrace at first but as time progresses, the Twin Flame journey becomes interesting and you learn to enjoy every aspect of it whether you describe yourself as a runner or a chaser.
Once I found healing and enlightenment, I sent a long letter to my Twin Flame to explain to him why I behaved coldly towards him when I was running. I apologized for hurting him by trying to block him out of my life abruptly without a legitimate reason to justify my behavior.
I have learned two lessons about why the runner cycle exists. One, it exists to teach us that love is greater than the human condition. Twin Flame love is one of the greatest forces in the universe. Running from a twin flame is out of fear — you feel overpowered and disarmed. You feel vulnerable and exposed in every way. He or she sees right through you. So, running out of fear of love is a learning lesson: to learn to open up yourself to embrace unconditional love with yourself and your twin flame.
Running in essence is not the physical activity of leaving a twin flame. It has layers to it. When you analyze your running behaviors, you are running from yourself. You are running from parts of yourself that don’t accept unconditional love.
When you feel unworthy of love, you automatically run from it. You don’t want to associate with anything that reminds you of the love that you are hiding from — including your twin flame.
It takes a while to embrace parts of ourselves that we think are unlovable. Self-love is the beginning f healing. It is indeed the greatest revolution.
I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed!
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