The feeling of home; your safe place — you feel acknowledged and accepted even though you don’t say a word to each other
Strong is an understatement. I thought that I had loved it before but I guess I was wrong. Every relationship that I had before I met my Twin Flame was a lesson in itself to prepare me to embrace the divine connection.
There is nothing as sweet and potent as ate in Flame love. You feel all the broken parts within you come together as you heal. It washes all the emotional dirt within you that you carried for years.
The feeling of home; your safe place — you feel acknowledged and accepted even though you don’t say a word to each other. You have another dimension to your energetic bubble. You can both escape the room without leaving because you have a Spiritual connection. You talk without saying a word. I love it when this happens!
When you meet a Twin flame, you know right away that your search is over. You relax because you know that no one will ever love you as a Twin Flame does.
Women naturally are more tuned into our emotions and we freely talk about our feelings, unlike males. Even if a man is a chaser or runner, they rarely talk about it. That’s why you hear more from women than from men. This also applies to balancing the divine masculine energy with the divine feminine.
If you have been a runner before, you understand that each Twin Flame has both masculine and feminine energy within itself. For you to feel balanced within — to attain Inner Union — you have to feel balanced within. You must feel grounded in the shared energy within before you balance it with your Twin Flame through the energetic merging.
Twin Flame Runner Traits From my experience, when I felt more divine masculine energy than feminine, my energy felt heavy and intense. I could relax — always restless.
When I was more into my divine feminine energy, I was always in tears. It still catches me off guard and I get all emotional. If you judge your Twin Flame for either running or chasing, you are judging yourself.
Well, lots of benefits; you have to be brave to let go. You go through a lot of trying moments to finally let your Twin Flame be the person he or she is. Here are some benefits of letting go:
Inner peace and harmony — the moment you feel a hint of harmony within, you realize that you have the inner power to Surrender. You finally accept the situation the way it is and you trust that everything will be alright without your control.
The running and chasing phase evokes intense feelings within you. When you finally Surrender, you give yourself to heal trauma and core wounding. The reason why you chase the runner is that you assume that your Twin Flame can save you from yourself but you later realize that you are the answer to healing your pain.
The runner on the other hand needs to go through his healing. Surrender allows her or him to grow an appreciation for your connection. Remember that he or she can only run that far. Surrender is a graceful phase of the journey — you free yourself of fear. You realize that there is freedom in letting go.
That is normal and perfectly okay; it sucks but you gotta let it sting. Your Twin can go to extreme lengths and find exotic ways to avoid you but the more effort he or she invests in blocking you, the more time they think of you because you are always in their mind 24/7. The runner experiences all sorts of fears — the fear of abandonment. The fear of facing themselves. You have no control over what the runner does; you can only experience the effects of his or her running behaviors. Everything will be alright eventually.
There is no mistaking a twin flame because your Soul alerts you right away
I know what you mean: From my running experiences, the runner goes through a phase of aftershock. He or she does not believe what just happened to them as if your love connection puts them in a high or a daze. He or she does not believe that they could be that vulnerable. You feel exposed to your divine lover. A Twin Flame walks into your heart and breaks down all your walls. If you were not used to feeling vulnerable .org feeling loved unconditionally, you completely shit down.
Life as you know it changes dramatically overnight. You go through a series of emotional cleansing. Even though you are not a Spiritual person, you go through an accelerated Awakening. You transform from the inside to the outside — your soul growth ripples into your life situation. You manifest abundance and success because you’re shared energy is empowering. You are energized to pursue your wildest dreams.
It all starts with your energetic vibration; you feel turbulence. You know for sure that someone is feeling you on the other end. If you felt chaos in your energy before, it intensifies because you channel your Twin Flame’s emotional chaos. You go through a mild night of the soul and a quick phase of spiritual awakening. It does not last long though. If you have any more energetic cleansing to do, you go through an accelerated purge — you feel very emotional in this phase.
It feels like all your senses are opening up to your Twin aflame energy. Some sort of fine-tuning if you say so. My Twin Flame had a lot of abandonment issues — he also has the middle-child syndrome. He makes fun of it but he says he felt like he was always the forgotten child. The third one of 6. He blocked me because he can’t hide from me. I disarm him. I make him feel vulnerable.
He was used to putting up walls around himself. He gets cagey but he tells me everything. His inner child comes out. I see him for who he is. I felt so much pain when he was Awakening. I was moody and I cried a lot. I could not control my emotions.
I always feel him but I have learned to balance our energy. I am happy every time I channel his energy. I love him so much.
I know what you mean by this; my Twin Flame has trust and abandonment issues and this is what I did to help during the time we have been apart. Our relationship went from the honeymoon phase to being estranged — we both had issues to face within ourselves and in our physical life situations accordingly.
Honesty is a big tool
When confronting your issues, be truthful. Remember that you have no wall between you. A Twin Flame can see right through you.
One of the reasons why my Twin Flame blocked me is because I tell him the truth even though it hurts. Sometimes it is for the best that you confront your issues right on without delaying the inevitable.
When it comes to telling the truth, I know that it is the most uncomfortable thing to do — telling a Twin Flame how you feel for him or her without exposing yourself. You always end up exposing yourself by the way. So feel the fear and do it anyway.
When a Runner or Chaser knows how much you love him or her, there is a feeling of comfort that eventually a reunion will happen even when the journey gets discouraging and painful to overcome some challenging obstacles.
So make it clear to your Twin Flame that he or she is your home — your eternal best friend.
Expressions of love through actions of kindness and positive words of affirmation
You will not believe how lonely the Twin Flame journey gets during the separation phase! You get to a point when all your old friends who do not match your new energetic vibration have to go. You purge your life situation beginning with your relationships. When you divorce or separate from your husband, you also separate from most of your in-laws and extended family.
Instead of pursuing a battle with your Twin Flame by being narcissistic and toxic to each other, it is best to make peace. You have to focus on growing empathetic feelings for your Twin Flame because he or she is fighting a battle within themselves as well.
Whenever I get a chance to connect with my Twin Flame usually through messaging, I changed my tone from being frustrated all the time to being more understanding of his situation.
The other day, I thanked him for being himself! Usually, such positive affirmative words encourage him to do better when he needs inspiration.
Asking for forgiveness and working towards healing and inner Union
At some point when you get exhausted from either running or chasing, you get to a point of rest. You want to feel inner peace again — you Surrender.
Before you get to Surrender, you seek forgiveness first. Whatever you did or did not do comes to light. You express you need to feel free of fear and worry. You know it might take some time to heal the scars but you know that he or is sorry.
Every authentic Twin Flame pair knows that you can feel your Twin Flame’s pain or joy. You can use telepathy to connect and also heal through your shared energy.
I always take at least an hour a day through meditation to deliberately send warm euphoric love feelings to my Twin Flame.
When I feel him sending love back to me, I say a little prayer of gratitude.
When you find each other, you know that you have found the love of your life
When you find each other, you know that you have found the love of your life. You relax — you feel a sense of relief as if you have searched for this person for eons and this is your once in a million years chance. When you find each other, therefore, you don’t hide it no matter who is in the way. You know that you will move mountains to have a chance with him or her. You cannot contain your love for him or her. It is the most potent connection you will ever feel! When you meet a Twin Flame for the first time, you know that your life will change dramatically because you know in your Soul that he or she is your home and for you to be with them, you will have to change your life.
The unconditional love connection is the trigger and alchemist of the Spiritual Awakening process, not vice versa. If I did not feel unconditionally loved by him, I would never have bravely embraced the chaotic Spiritual growth lessons. Since the mirrors to me my deepest fears and greatest desires at the same time, he showed me parts of myself that I needed to work on especially building an emotional immunity and learning to build healthy personal boundaries. I could not resist the changes that happened in my life situation because for me to appreciate his love for me, I had to first fix my issues. (I also accept that Spiritual Awakening happens in so many forms and can be triggered by any experience or connection. I am sure there are experts on these Spiritual things.)
Thirdly and most importantly for me, I believe that Twin Flame love is the epitome of happiness. When you are separated from a Twin Flame, there is no separation because you think of each other 24/7. You dream of each other and you are constantly merging in energy. Physical separation is the true test of the authenticity of your connection. Separation is also a blessing in disguise because you are both allowed the sacred healing space; you learn various love lessons, and you travel back within yourself to heal your inner child. Physical separation is a preparation phase for your Union or holly matrimony — this is if you both desire to end up together.
You have to inspire each other to keep moving forward as you surmount the obstacles standing in the way of a harmonious Union.
In my opinion, a Genuine Twin Flame connection heals you because you have eternal empathy for each other. You both understand that you have your issues to deal with. You inspire each other to heal and grow. You have forgiveness instead of tearing each other apart through petty fights and egoistic confrontations.
Separation is not negative. It is not as literal as it sounds. Separation begins within yourself — that feeling of disconnection from within yourself and the world around you. Your connection intensifies the feelings of separation; hence the manifestations in your physical life.
You can be in physical separation from a Twin Flame, you both work on yourself, and work towards a harmonious union without bickering and fighting each other.
I am not an expert at identifying the types of Twin Flames, therefore I stick to trusting my experiences, inner knowing, and Soul truth. No one can convince me otherwise — I know in the depth of my soul that we are meant to be romantic Twin Flame because I feel the truth within me. When we recognized each other, I knew right away that we met in this lifetime for us to experience authentic unconditional love. I feel it when I hug him — I see it when I look into his eyes, and being with him brings me inner peace because he is my home.
When I was new to the Twin Flame journey, every piece of information I read online seemed intimidating, confusing, overwhelming, and too complicated for me to fathom. At some point, I tried to convince myself that it was a Soulmate connection because the idea seemed simpler for me to wrap my head around it.
Secondly, since the Spiritual nature was overly emphasized, I was a non-spiritual person. I was naive about what was to happen to me three years down the line. For better or for worse, the connection to my Twin Flame has been my solace, my best friend, and my source of joy, and happiness. It matters less if he is in the room or not, nothing can change how I love him. I have parts of himself within me. He is in my blood.
When you meet a romantic Twin Flame, you feel healing from the trauma that happened in your previous relationships. It feels like all your previous karmic partners were practicing for you to love your Twin Flame the right way. The genuine authentic love connection to my Twin Flame has inspired me to grow, transform and awaken for the past three years.
Even though I crave to be with him every second of the day, I LOVE the new person that I have become. I had never imagined feeling free, safe, and content without needing any outside validation. I live a simple and humble life all because his love for me inspired me to face parts of myself that I thought were unlovable. I feel happier generally even though I miss him.
Meeting him has been the best gift of my life. I always thank God/Universe for all my blessings because Twin Flame love freed me from all my past pain, unexplained fears, and self-insecurities.
When you chase a married Twin Flame, you get tired of waiting— you feel exhausted from chasing. The more you chase, the further he or she runs from you. It is like chasing the wind. All your efforts are fruitless. Surrendering comes to you naturally. You withdraw all your energy to focus on yourself. You choose to focus on yourself. You let go of stressing about your twin flame connection. You surrender to what is and let divine timing happen when it does.
As the separation phase progresses, you transform into an authentic version of yourself. You start to unlock your blessings— the twin flame journey empowers you to redefine yourself, your goals, and your life missions. Your life is never the same after you learn to let go.
If you are struggling with running and or chasing, don’t worry. You will eventually overcome this phase. You will achieve inner peace. If a twin flame connection is authentic, you are connected forever.
This book identifies the stress and pain that come with chasing a Twin Flame and how to find surrender. When you learn to let go, you find inner freedom. You find true happiness.
I thought that I was going crazy when I experienced the energetic merge with my Twin Flame. Every emotion felt very strong, intense, and confusing.
The emotional chaos happened because I was confused as to why I was feeling my Twin Flame’s energy merging with mine all the time.
When I was new to understanding the dynamics of the Twin Flame energetic merge, I could feel my Twin Flame’s energy taking over the left side of my body.
I thought that it was very strange that I felt that way.
The energetic merging did not stop and it changed my feelings, thoughts, and emotions. I felt like my essence was merging with my Twin Flame’s essence continuously.
And, I now know that my Twin Flame’s energy did not only take over the right side of my body but as we kept merging energetically, the shared energy took over.
When the shared energy of Oneness took me over, I stopped feeling as if I am a singular person and I started to feel as if we are two people living in one body.
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