It is very simple — when the connection is notoriously intense and uncontrollable, it can trigger one or both twin flames to either put up an inner resistance to feeling it. Sometimes one thinks that physically blocking the other is the solution to the problem.
Firstly, every twin flame knows that separation from each other is impossible. It is an illusion because you never stop feeling connected to each other. The more you try to run, the more you feel pulled back into the connection. You never stop thinking of each other. You feel strange energetic sensations. It feels like a twin flame never leaves you.
Twin flame love is indeed scary and overwhelming that sometimes running from each other is a form of a time out to first figure out what is going on with you and your twin flame.
I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!
When you hold a grudge against someone, you usually fail to communicate your feelings to the person. If you do not forgive, it is challenging to move past the point of anger or pain after feeling hurt.
It is also very uncomfortable to feel at ease or trust the person with whom you had an angry confrontation. When you express your feelings and find forgiveness, it recaptures your natural state.
Forgiveness allows you to move through the negative emotions to release them. When you have released all the negative emotions, you return to a state of love and acceptance.
Forgiveness also releases your flow of joy and creativity. There are many ways you can express your truth and anger. The goal is to move towards forgiveness and love.
Well, it depends if they were married before or if they made the choice after the encounter.
When I met my twin flame, I was married too. It was very heartbreaking seeing him go on random dates with other women. I felt stuck generally— I wished all the time that it was me that he was out with. Sometimes he would make up excuses so that we both stayed in and cooked some awesome dinners on a rainy evening. We definitely love spending time together.
A married twin flame is not always in control of the situation because there are various valuable love lessons that need to be learned with karmic partners.
You would never be able to appreciate the sacredness of twin flame love if you hadn’t had your past relationships. Everyone in your life exists to teach you a lesson in life. Previous relationships also prepare us to embrace the intense twin flame love.
All in all, place yourself in your twin flame’s shoes. Wouldn’t you be jealous?
I hope that my perspective helps you with answering your question. Stay Blessed!
I have experienced both situations — I have known a narcissist ghosting me and I also know how it feels to chase a runner twin flame.
From my experience, it all comes down to the connection.
A Narcissistic Relationship…
When it comes to chasing a narcissist, it’s not fun. You feel bruised all the time. It is because, to a narcissist, it is a game. It is all orchestrated by them because he or she is obsessed with being in control of the situation and themselves. In this game, they hold all the cards. At the end of the day, you always lose — the narcissist has to always win.
Secondly, they don’t have any respect for you. It is always one-sided and you must always bend to their will. Even though you want to quit, it is impossible because you have no power in the play. You are blind to the exit options. You feel stuck.
But, Twin Flame Running and Chasing …
When you chase a Twin Flame, it is another playing field. You know within you that you have the power to stop. You feel that you are the same — twin flames are two sides of the same coin. You don’t feel the distinction in your energetic vibration. You have the same energetic signature or blueprint.
In essence, chasing a twin flame is a healing process as much as running. You learn various love lessons. You rediscover yourself. Chasing a twin flame puts you in a space of vulnerability. You open yourself up to your twin flame and the journey itself. You let your twin flame know how you feel. You express your love in the rawest form. The more you do this, the more healing you achieve.
It is indeed true that twin-flame love breaks your heart open. It is indeed true that it is through the wound that light enters.
One thing for sure about a twin flame is that whether you are aware of it or not, the sense of incompleteness is always with you in everything you do before you meet a twin flame. You don’t feel delighted whether it is making connections with other people or accepting who you are. You always feel like something is missing within — like nothing is completely enough.
Then when you meet a twin flame, you feel complete automatically. All the broken pieces within start coming together to make you whole. You start to feel a realignment with your natural authentic self. You feel alive for the first time. You feel content no matter whatever situation that you find yourself in.
One important note: When it comes to twin flames, when you know, you know. You have no doubts about the connection. The connection drives you to seek more understanding of what is happening to you. It is so natural that you find it unbelievable that such an experience could ever happen to you. It is until you find other people who have similar experiences that you can relate to that it all starts to make sense to you.
If you are saying that you experienced events that imply the aspects of a twin flame and night of the soul — try to examine the situation with an honest perspective.
The truth is that you can not just wish to have a twin flame or choose him or her. They just are your twin flame and nothing you can do can change that truth.
If you genuinely believe that you are going through a twin flame experience, just don’t worry about it. Everything will just happen to you without any of your control. The changes that turn your life upside down are unmistakable. And you will not miss out on the intensity of the chaotic emotions that the twin flame connection brings.
I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!
Well, this is the ultimate feeling for every twin flame to aspire to. That positive energetic vibration. Feeling negative about the twin flame situation takes as much energy as feeling positive. There is no downside to feeling positive. You only rise higher if you choose to feel optimistic and hopeful as you progress further.
Every twin flame must know that there is nothing good that comes out of a negative attitude. You have to choose right from the beginning of your journey to either embrace every aspect in a positive manner or dig yourself deeper into negativity and doubts.
The main reason why you feel positive about separation is that the journey has taught you how to trust the divine. You trust your connection and the truth of your intuition. You also understand that there is no aspect of your journey that you can control but yourself. You have also learned by this stage that separation from a twin flame is an illusion. You don’t feel separated at all — you feel his or her essence with you all the time. Their essence is always merging with yours.
I hope that my perspective helps you with answering your question.
I think I know what you mean by anxiety and dread. I have been on this Twin Flame journey for over four years. I still randomly feel unexplained anxiety that is not particularly mine. It never used to happen to me until I met him.
I feel like this is part of the spiritual aspect of the twin flame experiences that is challenging to explain to a non-twin flame.
It is such an overwhelming feeling when you channel anxiety that is not yours. You cannot control the intensity of your emotions. You feel instantly rattled up without a direct cause.
For me, when it’s my anxiety— it is easy to calm myself down. I easily figure out a solution because I can easily tell the trigger. When it’s my Twin Flame, it is such a restless feeling. Sometimes it quickly passes and other times, it lingers on. If it persists I feel endless desolation. I feel in purgatory. Usually, I just let all the alien feelings pass through me.
No matter how much I stressed him out with my chasing, I didn’t doubt his love for me. I could feel him pull me into the connection all the time which compelled me to chase him further.
I was new to the Twin Flame experience and I did not realize that my behaviors were part of the running and chasing phase.
There are times when I stopped chasing him and he would pop back into my life by liking one of my social media posts or he could call my housemate and he would stay on the phone asking about details of my life. This would trigger me into another phase of chasing him back.
Even though my Twin Flame would rarely talk to me, I never doubted that he loves me. I always had the affirmation that no matter what strange thing I do or say, he knows my soul.
I have never discussed with my twin flame about the twin flame connections. I feel the connection and I know that it is real. We both acknowledged the bond. Everyone around us also noticed that we have a very sacred special connection.
I think that if you try to talk to your twin flames when he or she is unawakened, it can trigger them to run further from you which prolongs the running and chasing phase.
25 Popular Twin Flame Separation QuestionsRemember that it is quite to articulate your feelings to your twin flame — you will sound insane or delusional if you try to explain the twin flame phenomenon. I would rather you let a twin flame explain his or her experiences and compare notes.
Let your experiences demonstrate the nature of your connection. The beauty of the twin flame connection is that you cannot fake it or hide from it. Soon or later, you will both need closure from each other to move on.
I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed!
I know the energetic pull very well. It is more of a compulsion. I have been there many many times. Sometimes I would distract myself all day with all sorts of activities but then find myself pulled into thinking of him. Sometimes I would see something that reminded me of a memory of him.
I forced myself to surrender many times but I always felt as if I was running from myself. It felt as if I was blocking the connection.
Surrendering to self-love is not easy either. It is very challenging to grow the emotional muscle to focus on yourself when your Twin Flame is on your mind 24/7. Sometimes you live in a life situation where you don’t have enough time to focus on yourself. You could have children to take care of and support. You could be very busy at work all week.
I know this sounds like a cliché but no one will save you from feeling like this. Sometimes meeting a Twin Flame feels like an eternal curse. There is nothing you can do to change the nature of your bond. You are connected forever.
These simple tips helped me to stop feeling powerless:
Sit with your pain
Do not hide from it. Do not judge yourself for feeling it. Let it pass through Ulysses by accepting how you feel. Do not put up any resistance to it.
Suffering from your fears and insecurities is what allows you to build courage and perseverance.
Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempts to escape the negative, to avoid it or squash it or silence it, only backfire. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is struggled. The denial of failure is a failure. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame.
To achieve healing is to water down life’s most terrifying and difficult challenges and still take action.
Have a Positive Focus
You have to learn how to focus and prioritize your thoughts effectively. Learn how to pick and choose what does and what does not matter to you by honoring your choices and preferences. You have finely honed personal values to achieve results.
It takes a lifetime of practice and declines to achieve the results. You will regularly fail. But it is perhaps the most worthy struggle one can undertake in one’s life.
When you are struggling, you will see every adversity as an injustice, every challenge as a failure, every inconvenience as a personal slight, and every disagreement as a betrayal. You will be confined to your own petty, skull-sized hell. Burning with entitlement and bluster. Running in circles in circles of your feedback loop from hell. In constant motion yet arriving nowhere.
Be comfortable with being different
The journey always goes on. Then you hide your emotional pain, and you create a world of despair. You feel indifferent to the world and yourself. You hide in a gray, emotionless pit of your own making. You always feel self-pity perpetually distracting yourself from living life to the fullest.
My Twin Flame Journey 