Yes, all the time! If I told my stories to someone who has never met a Twin Flame, they would absolutely say that I am crazy or delusional. There are no perfect words to explain the Twin Flame connection. When you are triggered into awakening, you realize that the connection is not something that magically happens to you. Rather, it has always been there but dormant. You have always been a Twin Flame without awareness.
He or she has always existed within you. You feel oneness — you feel complete. Somehow it makes sense why you always felt some level of unexplained emptiness.
You would think that the connection would have faded by now. It has been four years since we last saw each other. Physical separation has intensified and polished our connection over the years.
It does not matter who I am with or where I am. I feel the magnetic heart pulling even right now as I write this. It always feels like he is thinking of me as much as I think of him. I for sure feel it that he feels me.
Self-Love is the process of growing your own Personal Power at your core to stay stable, strong, and grounded in yourself; your energy, emotions, thoughts, and feelings.
As you work on staying grounded in your Personal Power, the process of self-love will lead you to discover your true authentic self. Self Love is a process that also empowers you to redefine your life by setting healthy boundaries to what makes you happy and what does not.
Everything you create and discover in this Twin Flame process is all about you as an individual; the other half of the soul. The Twin Flame Journey takes place inside the individual Twin Flames whose shared energy must come to a place of balance and harmony within both partners.
Having personal power grows your emotional immunity to stay balanced in harmony and peace within. The more you ground your energy at the core the more you are stable enough to keep your emotions, feelings, and thoughts at bay. Once you master how to take care of yourself from within, the benefits will manifest physically in your life.
Your self-esteem and personal confidence go through the roof. Once you discover who you truly are and what you are capable of, you realize that you are so capable of so much more than you thought before.
You acknowledge your responsibility as an individual and you start working towards a meaningful life goal or mission. This is because you discover that you have so much love within yourself to share with the whole human collective.
Self Love also opens your heart to experience love by being open to loving others and you accept being loved back in return. Here, you can accept unconditional love in yourself and express it to others and vice versa.
It is quite challenging at first — raising your energetic vibration. You eventually get a hang of it. You start enjoying the positive vibes. You eventually grow an emotional muscle to stay in a natural positive energetic vibe. Here are some tips for you:
I have experienced both situations — I have known a narcissist ghosting me and I also know how it feels to chase a runner twin flame.
From my experience, it all comes down to the connection.
A narcissistic Relationship…
When it comes to chasing a narcissist, it’s not fun. You feel bruised all the time. It is because, to a narcissist, it is a game. It is all orchestrated by them because he or she is obsessed with being in control of the situation and themselves. In this game, they hold all the cards. At the end of the day, you always lose — the narcissist has to always win.
Secondly, they don’t have any respect for you. It is always one-sided and you must always bend to their will. Even though you want to quit, it is impossible because you have no power in the play. You are blind to the exit options. You feel stuck.
When you chase a Twin Flame, it is another playing field. You know within you that you have the power to stop. You feel it within that you are the same — twin flames are two sides of the same coin. You don’t feel the distinction in your energetic vibration. You have the same energetic signature or blueprint.
In essence, chasing a twin flame is a healing process as much as running. You learn various love lessons. You rediscover yourself. Chasing a twin flame puts you in a space of vulnerability. You open yourself up to your twin flame and the journey itself. You let your twin flame know how you feel. You express your love in the rawest form. The more you do this, the more healing you achieve.
Nothing. Every worst “thing” that I could have possibly felt was mirrored to me because they were things that I needed to work on. My twin flame on the contrary to the question is the best thing that ever happened to me. I am very grateful for him and all my twin flame experiences because I finally transformed into the person of my dreams and more. I am happier than before. I also live a purposeful life.
I must admit that there was a phase when I blamed my twin flame for a lot of the negative experiences that I was going through. I felt frustrated with him at the beginning of the separation phase. When he said that it was best for everyone if we did not talk to each other since I was married, I felt as if it was the worst thing he would say to me then. I later on realized after surrendering that it was the best thing to do. There is no way I would have juggled my marriage with my twin flame relationship.
Well, it depends if they were married before or if they made the choice after the encounter.
When I met my twin flame, I was married too. It was very heartbreaking seeing him go on random dates with other women. I felt stuck generally— I wished all the time that it was me that he was out with. Sometimes he would make up excuses so that we both stayed in and cooked some awesome dinners on a rainy evening. We definitely love spending time together.
A married twin flame is not always in control of the situation because there are various valuable love lessons that need to be learned with karmic partners.
You would never be able to appreciate the sacredness of twin flame love if you hadn’t had your past relationships. Everyone in your life exists to teach you a lesson in life. Previous relationships also prepare us to embrace the intense twin flame love.
All in all, place yourself in your twin flame’s shoes. Wouldn’t you be jealous?
I hope that my perspective helps you with answering your question. Stay Blessed!
Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempts to escape the negative, to avoid it or squash it or silence it, only backfire. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is struggle. The denial of failure is a failure. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame.
One of life’s realities is that major improvements take time; improvements do not happen overnight. When you have very high expectations of instant gratification, you will get disappointed when it does not happen.
Becoming a master at anything takes time; you have to commit to never-ending practice and improvement. You have to hone your skills through constant practice and refinement. It takes years to have depth and breadth of your experiences to achieve expertise, insight, and wisdom.
When you are struggling, you will see every adversity as an injustice, every challenge as a failure, every inconvenience as a personal slight, and every disagreement as a betrayal. You will be confined to your own petty, skull-sized hell. Burning with entitlement and bluster. Running in circles in circles of your own feedback loop from hell. In constant motion yet arriving nowhere.
You have to learn how to focus and prioritize your thoughts effectively. Learn how to pick and choose what does and what does not matter to you by honoring your choices and preferences. You have finely honed personal values to achieve results.
It takes a lifetime of practice and declines to achieve the results. You will regularly fail. But it is perhaps the most worthy struggle one can undertake in one’s life. Perhaps it is the only struggle.
After traveling on this twin flame journey for five years, I now understand how to enjoy the separation phase. The ideal goal is to adapt to the changes in your life so that you can grow and evolve into your highest best self. You will eventually become the most authentic version of yourself.
Life is very stressful for the chaser twin flame because you feel disoriented. The separation phase initially takes a toll on you. You have no idea how to handle the situation. You look for help in all sorts of places if you are naive about the twin flame experiences.
Do not worry anymore. I created this book for you as a beginning point to understand any twin flame chaser grief that you feel. It gets easier as you learn to ground yourself in your energy. This book will guide you on how to find your center — your grounding. It will also guide you on how to grow an emotional muscle to deal with any obstacles that come your way. You will also have figured out the different ways to rediscover yourself. The different ways you can surrender to self-love.
Also, I inserted some affirmations on how to improve and raise your energetic vibration. This book also includes practical ways to keep yourself happy in your little corner of the world. I hope to inspire you to stay hopeful that a reunion with your twin flame will eventually happen.
May you grow, transform, and become the most authentic version of yourself.
I have never discussed with my twin flame about the twin flame connections. I feel the connection and I know that it is real. We both acknowledged the bond. Everyone around us also noticed that we have a very sacred special connection.
I think that if you try to talk to your twin flames when he or she is unawakened, it can trigger them to run further from you which prolongs the running and chasing phase. Remember that it is quite to articulate your feelings to your twin flame — you will sound insane or delusional if you try to explain the twin flame phenomenon.
I would rather you let a twin flame explain his or her experiences and compare notes. Let your experiences demonstrate the nature of your connection. The beauty of the twin flame connection is that you cannot fake it or hide from it.
Soon or later, you will both need closure from each other to move on. I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed!
One thing for sure about a twin flame is that whether you are aware of it or not, the sense of incompleteness is always with you in everything you do before you meet a twin flame. You don’t feel completely satisfied whether it is making connections with other people or accepting who you are. You always feel like there is something missing within — like nothing is completely enough.
Then when you meet a twin flame, you feel complete automatically. All the broken pieces within start coming together to make you whole. You start to feel a realignment with your natural authentic self. You feel alive for the first time. You feel content no matter whatever situation that you find yourself in.
One important note: When it comes to twin flames, when you know, you know. You have no doubts about the connection. In fact, the connection drives you to seek more understanding of what is happening to you. It is so real that you find it unbelievable that such an experience could ever happen to you. It is until you find other people who have similar experiences that you can relate to that it all starts to make sense to you.
If you are saying that you experienced events that imply the aspects of a twin flame and dark night of the soul — try to examine the situation with an honest perspective.
The truth is that you can not just wish to have a twin flame or choose him or her. They just are your twin flame and nothing you can do can change that truth.
If you genuinely believe that you are going through a twin flame experience, just don’t worry about it. Everything will just happen to you without any of your control. The changes that turn your life upside down are unmistakable. And you will not miss out on the intensity of the chaotic emotions that the twin flame connection brings to you.
I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!
My Twin Flame Journey 